weekend kitties - late edition!

finger calloused by suckitude

new sucking yoga position

followed by martial arts training

Pic sent to a friend earlier this week: Kitteh Demon Hunter!

But one must relax outside one's favorite tree too (you can't see it, but she can hear and smell it.)

KITTEH SHENANIGANS

Sitting on the couch and heard the usual Suspicious Noise in kitchen.

 I've been too bleh to install the child lock on the tea cabinet, but have been keeping the bread in the fridge. But I hadn't thought she could open a croissant container.

But the technique is simple really.

Knock it over.

 

 Croissant lid pops open.

Croissants ready for kitty-sumption.

   

Turned out it was a tag team effort. When I returned to the living room to eat my meal, there was Hazelbub one foot from my plate, cleaning her fur in a very suspicious Post Meal Fur Cleaning manner.

 Must recharge evil batterehs now.

                    

Mary McDonnell's hair is The Man!

I came across Dances With Wolves on TV this week and watched it while doing other stuff--hadn't seen it since college, when my girlfriend Delyriam and I ate eggplant parmesan and mocked it. I stopped watching as of their wedding so I wouldn't have to see the sad parts that wikipedia warned me were coming.

Still don't understand why Stands With a Fist, a woman raised from childhood like any other Lakota woman

(like the one played by Tantoo Cardinal)

had messy hair (the #1 source of mine and Delyriam's jokes.) 

According to Random Internet Dude McDonnell chose the 'do herself because it was realistic in re. how your hair would look on the windswept prairies. I would add--realistic if you have Anglo hair that knots easily, like mine. In which case, all the more reason why I would always wear my hair in braids! If you had smoother hair, you'd probably still braid it most of the time, because it's painful and obnoxious to have hair whipped in your face!

But the proof is in the photographic record anyway, so McDonnell doesn't need have theorized.

They obviously did it to make her look more contemporary, or more white, or whatever. She even has layers and bangs lol. And for heaven's sake, to anyone out there with pioneering grandmothers from the prairies, did they leave the sod roofed cabin looking like this either? Of course not! No one wore their hair this way except us! In 1990, the year the movie was made, the year I graduated high school.

Stands With a Diploma

(Same haircut as Mary, but combed.)

This isn't a deep point. But it was just as annoying in 2011 as it was 20 years ago and therefore merited a post. Heh!

      

After brokenness - mercy

I posted awhile back someone else's essay about the state of being broken and how it's a positive thing. And my dad replied on his blog with an example of a time when he felt broken.

The state of brokenness might help us see flaws in our own thinking or acting or way of being. Author and writing teacher Lucy March talks about towering*, from the tarot card where you see a tower being destroyed, usually by lightning. 

Maybe a flash of insight that makes you realize (in the language of memes) ...

"Life: You're doing it wrong."

But I don't believe in letting the tower fall on you. Guilt and remorse are useful emotions for a time, but they shouldn't crush us. 

One of my dad's favorite passages from Shakespeare is the whole "quality of mercy is not strained" speec which is indeed beautiful, but it's about showing mercy toward other people. Leonard Cohen's "Sisters of Mercy" is a good compliment to it because it's a reminder that mercy is available to us as well. A lot of tarots show greenery outside of the tower--mercy as "graceful and green as a stem"?

So this is my song-reply to my dad's reply. 

Pick the version you think you'll like best, cause I love them all.

It's obviously touched many artists.

Oh the sisters of mercy, they are not departed or gone.

They were waiting for me when I thought that I just can't go on.

And they brought me their comfort and later they brought me their song.

Oh I hope you run into them, you who've been travelling so long.

Yes you who must leave everything that you cannot control.

It begins with your family, but soon it comes around to your soul.

Well I've been where you're hanging, I think I can see how you're pinned:

When you're not feeling holy, your loneliness says that you've sinned.

They lay down beside me, I made my confession to them.

They touched both my eyes and I touched the dew on their hem.

If your life is a leaf that the seasons tear off and condemn

they will bind you with love that is graceful and green as a stem.

When I left they were sleeping, I hope you run into them soon.

Don't turn on the lights, you can read their address by the moon.

And you won't make me jealous if I hear that they sweetened your night:

We weren't lovers like that and besides it would still be all right,

We weren't lovers like that and besides it would still be all right.

Serena Ryder

Emmylou Harris and Linda Ronstadt

Original Leonard 

Leonard Cohen with the sisters of mercy backing him up  

Sting and the Chieftains

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* Lucy March has just re-released an older book in ebook form--the very book she talks about in her post on towering. I haven't read it yet! But you should buy it too cause it's just $3. :-)  "When I wrote The Fortune Quilt, my writing goal for the book was to tell a story about someone whose life had completely fallen apart. Like the beginning of a country western song, the book would start with her losing everything she held dear – family, friends, and career – and would chronicle how she rebuilt her life from there. In the book, the main character, Carly, ends up in a community of psychics and artists, where she is then told that this horrible experience she has had, her entire life falling apart, is a universal experience, and it is called ‘Being Towered.’"