QUOTE OF THE NOW

"Our life evokes our character. You find out more about yourself as you go on. That's why it's good to be able to put yourself in situations that will evoke your higher nature rather than your lower. 'Lead us not into temptation.'" Joseph Campbell

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Appearances Matter

Just watched the movie 42, about Jackie Robinson's beginning in baseball. One of the (very obvious, but that's ok) themes is the effect this has on children, seeing what the people around them are doing. The effect on both black and white kids at seeing the first black ball player; kids seeing Robinson called a n****r etc. I's not a heavy deep idea--that racism, and anti-racism are passed to children--but it's one of those ideas that's so important it bears repeating and repeating.

"Political correctness" is sometimes critiqued because though it restricts people socially it doesn't change them inside. But children are taking in what they hear around them, and if they don't hear hatred, there's less chance they'll hate too. Appearances matter.

In grad school I knew someone who was studying the effects on young women of seeing women politicians on TV etc. And apparently it makes a real difference, it affects what girls want to grow up to be.

In the Buffy series finale (spoiler) to fight off the Nosferatu-on-steroids army...

she finds a way to transmit her slayer strengths to all the Slayers in Waiting around the planet--which normally happens only when the slayer dies, and to one girl. Not only does this give the potential girls around her power, but we flash to scenes all over the world of shy or abused girls suddenly filled with slayertude.

 

That's what I imagine it's like when you're a child and you see for the first time that women can also be ass-kickers, or astronauts or pirates. I loved Charlie's Angels and Wonder Woman and Angelic Huston in Ice Pirates, and Marion Ravenwood, and Princess Leia. They widened for me the possibilities of what women can be.

You can't underestimate the effect Jackie Robinson had on society, just by showing up. It was a good sub theme.

 

4 comments:

Judy,Judy,Judy. said...

I was a grown person in my 20's and absolutely astonished when I realized my mom had some racial prejudice in her. She did not pass that on to us because she and my dad were both stringently politically correct about it.

Skye said...

I knew my dad's family was heavily racist, but Dad wouldn't have it around his kids or in his home. He even told his own dad that if he didn't curb his bigoted language, he'd never be allowed to see us again.

Even though my dad had his own predjuces (and as a cop, they tended to be reinforced), he never let that color our beliefs. For that itself he was a hero.

Robena Grant said...

That was a movie I'd had on my list for months but ended up getting so busy I forgot about it. I'll definitely look for it at Best Buy. Or maybe check out red box and see if they have it for rent. I really do want to watch it. Thanks for the reminder.

widdershins said...

I think it was Sigourney Weaver in Alien (the first one) who really was a game changer for me.

Hope you having a hoot of a time waaaay over there on the other side of Canada! :D

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