QUOTE OF THE NOW

"Our life evokes our character. You find out more about yourself as you go on. That's why it's good to be able to put yourself in situations that will evoke your higher nature rather than your lower. 'Lead us not into temptation.'" Joseph Campbell

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Casual Post: Introducing Catface!

In Humor
Father Award of the Week to Casapinka's husband: When she awoke to a crying daughter because she had forgotten to play tooth fairy...
in a stupor reached into my brain for the "Three Night Rule" that the tooth fairy occasionally enacts, which fell like a lead balloon. Luckily, Husband found an envelope on the Barbie Dream House that had 15 Euros in it and a one dollar bill, the only US cash he had on him. "Juniorette's response while staring wonderingly at Daddy and scornfully at me: "Not only does the tooth fairy know we're going to Ireland this summer, this must mean that we're going to get OUR dream house, too!" 
(You see, Litdiva? Fathers learn and even exceed expectations!)

In Veganism
Just found out a vegan chain store opened in my city, downtown, back in the winter! Well! My corner store sells lots of goodies, and they'll be expanding eventually; but it'll be fun to have somewhere to make a little trip to for fun. Plus I never do orders online cause I don't want to pay all the shipping, but shipping from downtown once in awhile shouldn't be too expensive.
pic from hello Elo

In Kitties
Hi-larious photo from my friend Yolga--this is her cat, whose name is Kitty but whom she calls Catface. Catface was not posed for this picture (you know you can't be posing cats). Yolga's mother had to race for the camera and then contort in strange positions to make sure she got the shot. She did a great job!
(Is it me or does Catface have something important she needs to say? Very intent look on her face.)


I got Minion a kong toy but wasn't sure she'd use. She chews on it all the time (it's small like the green one, but pink.) She holds it with two paws like an ice cream, and I hear it squeaking: erka erka erka.





 Got some pics of the elusive Haley this week.
  

Minion hunting a fly--contemplating scaling the doll-figurine house.

 Animal dreaming next to animal dreaming deck.
(I let her choose today's oracle card. Butterfly-transformation.)

The intelligence in the eyes is disturbing. I dare not buy her a science kit.
 
       

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Do you know what you're fighting for?

I love how singer-songwriter Janelle Monáe introduced one of the first singles off her current album (The ArchAndroid):
While listening to "Cold War," you may feel obligated or inclined to find your purpose. You may want to form a huge tribe to help fight against the many things that work against you being your true self, just the way you were uniquely designed. You may even begin to dance while thinking, with a furrowed brow. You may begin to feel an increased responsibility to helping others free themselves from depravity. 
Cold War
I'm trying to find my peace
I was made to believe there's something wrong with me
And it hurts my heart
Lord have mercy, ain't it plain to see?
This is a cold war
You better know what you're fighting for
This is a cold war
Do you know what you're fighting for?



Here's a little more Janelle...

Because I have to watch it every 6 months: Many Moons.
(Go to youtube and watch in hi def!)
And when you're growing down instead of growing up
Tell me are you bold enough to reach for love?


Sincerely, Jane - This is exactly the kind of performance that got people kicked off American Idol this season. Consistently. I'm finally washing my hands of that show--it's great for finding country stars, but not pop or rock.
Are we really living
Or just walking dead now?


      

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Bridesmaids good for les womens? Oui!

I saw Bridesmaids awhile back, appropriately with a femmefriend, but didn't blog it yet! Not as a "hey, good movie" but because I'm hoping it signals a shift towards better movies about women.

Geek visionary Paul Feig & his pioneering stars
The Sex and the City movies were a good start. They don't represent how I see my female friendships, but I appreciated how they brought women out to the theaters and proved to Hollywood that yes, they can make movies starring women and still make money. They just need to either (a) feature popular subject matter (ie. a popular TV show), or (b) be good.

Bridesmaids is a case of (b) -- a really well written and well directed and well acted movie, with broad appeal, beyond broads. While Sex and the City was the "dress up and go with your girlfriends" movie, Bridesmaids is ungendered. It's a hybrid of a romantic comedy, a girlfriends-fighting movie, and the ultimate boyo genre: the gross out or raunch comedy. Written by two women, brought to you by the raunch king Judd Apatow, and directed by the originator of the geek trend: Paul Feig.

Linsday & Kim: True womance
Paul Feig!! The creator of one of my all-time fave shows Freaks and Geeks!! Which also had an excellent female friendship, that evolves into a touching womance. (You've all seen this series right??!!)

Now, while I lurv La Apatow, and most of the movies attached to the Freaks and Geeks gang --Virgin, Pineapple Express, Knocked Up, Superbad, Forgetting Sarah Marshall (when will Bill get his own feature film?)--I'm not a fan of the actual vomity side of gross out movies. The first hour of Bridesmaids provides toilet humor like you won't believe. But strangely... even the diarrhea scene... the most horrid horrid diarrhea scene ever... it's strangely plot appropriate, and maintains a sort of dignity for our heroine. Even as it HORRIFIES YOU.

Anyway, I'm blathering. Here's what I loved about Bridesmaids:

* It's a female driven movie that is honest to God funny. There's about four major comedic set pieces and they all work. I so love Apatow-style stupid-boy movies because it's so fun to watch a bunch of boys being dumb asses ("You embarrass yourself!"), but I'm always yearning for movies with women like that. In the movies women are rarely let-loose ridiculous unrealistic funny, they're more quirky funny.

That's why one of my favorite bad-movies is Head Over Heels about a smart woman with a bunch of dumb roommates--cause the roomies are stupid-boy-movie funny. I want more movies with ridiculous chicks.
I think they're watching the hero & heroine have sex in this scene, in his apartment across the street. She comes home to find them passed out on the couch and realizes what happened. "What? You didn't close the blind."
 * While the behavior of the characters is over the top, the basic emotions are realistic. There are different kinds of friendship in it, and I *got* them all, including the baddie's. These are things I've seen in real life--people I've seen, albeit made larger than life.

* It doesn't take place in an orientalist super-consumer fantasy land (though consumerism is one of the topics.)

* While the women are beautiful, they look... interesting. You know that feeling when you're watching a made for TV movie and the actors all have this sort of Generic Look to them? For example, the actor playing the bride, Maya Rudolph, has one of the most interesting faces I've seen in a longo time-o.

generic face
Maya Rudolph

* Classic example of a character's life towering, and while the romance of the romantic comedy is fulfilled by the end, kudos to the writers--her life is not magically put back together. Not by a long shot.

* Wee props to the cutie romantic character. Not your typical chiseled chin. He eats baby carrots and is very concerned about tail lights.


Here are the posters from the movie. 


So funny. You wanted to be her besty too.

 Our protagonist, Kristen Wiig the co-writer of the movie. So funny. Really good at playing someone who kinda hates herself, but we don't wanna kill her. (Well I didn't.)

The perfidious friend stealer! A baddie worthy of the saccharine fiancée in Arthur.

If anyone did the Russell Brand style scene stealing, it was Melissa McCarthy. Holy mackinole, I loved her. And now she won't go down in history as the chubby sunshiney girl. "Life is biting you in the ass!" And oh the puppies.

Bottom line: If the humor from movies like 40 Year Old Virgin or Love, Actually is too raunchy for you, then stay away from Bridesmaids. But otherwise, I give thumbs up.  ... Well really... it's so good you ought to see it anyway, because the comedic set pieces... my days. But history tells me you'll see it with my brother and your 80 year old stoical mother and later I'll get an email from my brother saying "Why did I rent this movie with dad and gramma what was I thinking??" and I'll write back saying "Ya what were you thinking?" and he'll be all "I forgot about the diarrhea scene, I just remembered how the character grew and learned, and the touching friendships" and I'll be all "Oh ya, I forgot too, but still" and he'll be all "I should stick to movies about dying people" and later I'll mention it to my step-mother and she'll be like "Well it's embarrassing watching these things with Gramma" and I'll think, well fair enough, but secretly lament that my step-mother saw the movie in Oppressive Circumstances because while she doesn't have sex-and-gross sense of humor, she is otherwise totally slapstick-low-brow, so sometimes you get her on her own and she laughs at the worst things I'm telling you, it's hi-lar-ious. So all I'm saying is... if you're going to risk watching the movie, don't watch it with my brother or my grandmother. ...Oh did I go off on a tangent?


     

Reading

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Les années douces : Volume 1
Back on the Rez
My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist's Personal Journey
Stupeur et tremblements
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