QUOTE OF THE NOW

"Our life evokes our character. You find out more about yourself as you go on. That's why it's good to be able to put yourself in situations that will evoke your higher nature rather than your lower. 'Lead us not into temptation.'" Joseph Campbell

Thursday, March 15, 2012

The Price of Coal : Roadtripping down the island!

I'm going back to Montreal in less than a week, to get some things, see my little family. And I haven't posted many pics of my stay here so far. So today we have Day Trip to Victoria With Fathah.

 Some maps to situate thee:

There I am on the far left, bottom corner!

Vancouver Island
Nanaimo is in the lower third

We drove down to Victoria, about 2 hours
(My mother and brother are in Vancouver, across from Nanaimo on the coast)

My intrepid Self

The main goal was Craigdarroch Castle, put up by one of our Founding Coal Barons (the kind who runs for office just to protect his industries). He died before living there, but his wife and zillion daughters lived there. Then it became a post WWI military hospital, and then a college.

In the mid '90s my mother and I took a touring trip about Vancouver Island. By the time we reached Craigdarroch Castle we had sore feet and were sick of seeing Old Crap so my mother drove up, I ran in and bought a postcard, and we left. So this visit's been long overdue.

You don't want to see too many photos, so first a couple general ones to give you the feel. It was all très Downton Abbey. Here's the mother's room for receiving visitors...

and the family's breakfast parlor.

I liked this sign about a student hangout room that "was briefly closed in 1943 when college administrators cited 'the unsatisfactory behaviour of some students from Ward 2.'" I imagine they were tossing bread rolls like Bertie Wooster's clubmates.

The bathroom, put in at one of the house's institutional periods.
It was all quite "I am not an animal!!" esque.

All over the house were two chimneyed fireplaces. See how there's a window in the middle, and columns to the right and left?

 I've seen small jewellery or small mementos made from real hair, but the ladies of the house made this full sized horror. It's like something from Madame Tussaud's. On par with other great Victorian atrocities like the Bishop's Bird Stump.

The ball room. ...Not quite what PBS would lead one to imagine.

Because I forgot all my Traveling Pals at home, Step-mommy graciously let me choose one of the stuffies used to keep Philea away from things she shouldn't chew. I picked out this Cross Dressing Night Club Act crab. I named him Homie cause I was homesick.

Here he checks out the views.

Towards our friends in the US...

The Pater points towards Nanaimo...
 

Downtown Victoria 

Playing for the folk in the ballroom.

Curved doors.

The little Victorians' room.

The lights pointing up were gas, the ones pointing down were electric--to show off one's hot technology.

A servant's room.

The castle is located in a neighborhood with our modern day robber barons. (I imagine they are since the houses there must be insanely expensive.)

(Let's see if we can find one for sale... ah here we go...)


After we went to the Victoria Art Gallery--I've always wanted to see some Emily Carr paintings. It was a nice little exhibit, but I was unimpressed with the rest of the gallery. While the narrative text for the Carr display was interesting, elsewhere in the gallery they were uninformative and uninteresting.

Carr painted a lot of Native communities along the island. She, like others, thought this was a crying figure on the pole. But actually his eyeballs have fallen out--his friends had to stick them back in at mealtime and hold them there so he could eat.

Skidegate Eagle--I think he'd have been on top of a crest pole like this. I bought a postcard reproduction for when I get my new place.


The gallery was first housed in an old mansion, which is still attached. It had a warmer formal dining room than Craigdarroch.

I was photographing the lovely wall-paper, which brought to my notice the best part of the dining room: The Girl With the Shit Eating Grin. Lovely.

If you're ever in Victoria, I don't especially recommend the gallery unless they're showing something you're interested in. ...Or if you like old Chinese art cause they have a ton of it (old weapons, statues, tea sets.) But Craigdarroch is worth a stop--the society has obviously spent a lot of time researching, sourcing, or reproducing the original decor.

And then you can muse about all the people who died pulling coal out of the ground to fund this little maison.
     

  

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Interlopers in My Romance Novel

I just finished a romance novel and though it's by one of the best rom com authors in the biz, one part fell prey to one of my least fave romance novel traditions: Previous protagonists as side characters.

Many romance novels are series containing the same characters--that is the say, book 2 takes the brother from book 1 and gives him his own romance. Book 3 takes the boss from book 1 and 2 and gives her her own romance. By book 4 you've got all these side characters popping up for semi-gratuitous scenes, presumably meant to please fans?

The result is the book's protagonist is surrounded by all these bland super-happy-highly-sexed-gorgeous couples who have perfect relationships because the author can't imply that any of her previous Happily Ever Afters might be having problems. Without having read the previous books in the series, I can tell these are previous characters, and it takes me out of the book. The novel suddenly rings false and I long to be rid of the interlopers.

I get why an author can't spoil the HEA Effect, so I wish these books just had new friend characters. With a balding husband here, a sarcastic wife there--something to relieve the monotony and somewhat reflect real life. Just because it's a fantasy about the hero and heroine, does it have to be a fantasy about all their buddies too?

I love romance novels, but I think the genre has falling into some ruts. Too many gorgeous and brooding men, too many sassy heroines with banging bods (though of course they don't think so), too many young characters, and too many previous characters littering up the landscape.

Song of the Day:
A song about the difficulties of writing love stories.
"Love Over and Over" by Kate and Anna McGarrigle*
I've walked upon the moors of many misguided tours
Where Emily, Anne and Charlotte poured their hearts out
What did they know, or anyone know, about love?


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*We were talking about shmoopy songs the other day and Judy, Judy, Judy mentioned she hadn't heard Kate and Anna McGarrigle. They're a Quebec folk duo, and sisters. Kate was married to Loudain Wainwright III was mother to Rufus and Martha Wainwright, and died just a couple years ago.
    

People always ask me how I get around town...

My first (and only) car was a little second hand Acadian (Chevette) that I had for 6 years because my parents lived somewhere sans bus.

Imagine this, but hand painted bright blue on top, dark blue on bottom, pink wipers and blue hubcaps. We made a mini version of it to display at the mother-daughter crafts display at church.


Where I lived the wind would blow off the lake and cover the lakeside road in drifts, and I didn't like driving in Quebec winter. But it was a reliable little boo. Didn't let me down in the 1993 Snowstorm of the Century. Provided a place for Fernando and I to make out.

It mocked me when I tried to go past 100 kmph (61mph). To go fast you had to put the gas petal to the floor...

put... put put... put put put... put put PUT... PUT PUT PUT... PUTPUTPUTPUT

It was funny to watch someone else try to drive it, cause they would gauge their ability to pass a car, pull into the left lane, gun the car and... put... put put... put put put... realize they couldn't make it, and pull back into the right lane. One day my step-mother lent me her old sports car, and the first time I went to merge with traffic I put the petal to the metal and

VROOOOOOOOOOM!!!!!

Friend Delyriam and I were pushed into the back of the seats. I could do 160 kmph (100 mph) in that Firebird and not feel it.

Still, I was glad when I moved out of home and into a bus-filled neighborhood, and I haven't had a car since--16 years. Mostly I like taking the bus or train, but once in awhile I dream I'm still in college and driving in my little car, and when I wake up I'm a little sad.

As Nanaimo isn't the most bus-oriented town in the world, I may end up needing a car eventually, and thought I should get comfy again. And so this week went Tootling About the Nabe With Stepmama. First time I've driven in 7 years. How did it go you wonder? Very well indeed! Except we both forgot to take off the parking brake.

I was reminded of State and Main when we got home, got out, and stood looking at the smoking back tires:
...So that happened.

Song of the day - "Brown Car" which brother, Swiss Girl and I used to sing in rounds.


Any and all Fond Car Memories welcome. :-)

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Shmoopy Hits! song of the day: Love theme to Superman, with lyrics.
 

Reading

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Les années douces : Volume 1
Back on the Rez
My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist's Personal Journey
Stupeur et tremblements
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