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Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Plastic Surgery: Magical cure for bullying!

Bruce Cockburn once sang: The trouble with normal is it always gets worse. Seems to fit in this case--I mean this idea of parents fixing their childrens' bullying problems with plastic surgery. I understand the impulse, and I'm sure there are cases where it's warranted. But man... slippery slope.

And also--this doctor is insane.







Is cosmetic surgery the answer to bullying?

Nadia Isle, 14, had been taunted since Grade 1: “Dumbo” and “elephant ears” were the cruel refrains of bullies who took issue with her ears.

By age 10, the Georgia girl was begging her mother for an operation, so Mom did some digging online and found the Little Baby Face Foundation, a non-profit that delivers free surgery to children born with “facial deformities,” kids who in some cases have been bullied.

Mother and daughter flew to New York for an otoplasty, which involves pinning back the ears. Disturbingly, the organization’s founder, Thomas Romo III, decided Nadia needed plenty of work besides her ears, going to town on her entire face.

“I love thin chins, but I don’t want it as pointy as that chin,” Dr. Romo announced. He also gave her a nose job, ostensibly for the purpose of symmetry.

When CNN’s Sanjay Gupta asked the doctor why he decided to operate on facial features neither Nadia or her bullies ever took issue with, Dr. Romo replied, “She didn’t recognize that.” (Globe and Mail - thanks to my bro who sent me the story.)


7 comments:

Skye said...

She was so much more interestingly beautiful before the surgery. So sad.

Judy, Judy, Judy said...

Agree with Skye. And why on earth did they feel the need to lighten her hair?
So many things wrong with this.

widdershins said...

I wonder what the poor kid thought of all the extra surgery he so kindly inflicted on her. Probably believed the whole bullshit story about it all being for her benefit ... and, you think the bullies aren't going to notice?

CiCi said...

I have a lot of sympathy for kids with "Dumbo" ears after going to school with a couple of them. Their lives were a living hell.

However, I have no idea why that so-called doctor did all the extras. I hope he didn't have the nerve to charge for them. Then somebody sent her on a beauty "make over" after her surgery. Not only is her hair lightened but the first thing I noticed was the amount of eye brow plucking that was done. Talk about a Pygmalian complex.

CiCi said...

Oops! Forgot this was free work done. Doesn't make it any better. Smacks of noblesse oblige.

London Mabel said...

Reminds me of the book The Uglies, of a society where when a person turns 15 they get state mandated surgery to make them "beautiful."

Unknown said...

This is absolutely a wonderful work by Dr. Romo. I really appreciate her expertise. If you want to know more about such doctors Click here

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